{"id":155847,"date":"2026-04-23T15:08:49","date_gmt":"2026-04-23T22:08:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/?p=155847"},"modified":"2026-04-23T15:08:49","modified_gmt":"2026-04-23T22:08:49","slug":"trump-iran-and-the-folly-of-demanding-surrender","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/2026\/04\/23\/trump-iran-and-the-folly-of-demanding-surrender\/","title":{"rendered":"Trump, Iran, And The Folly Of Demanding Surrender"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dr. Alon Ben-Meir<\/em><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n

Trump\u2019s threats and maximalist demands ignore Iran\u2019s history, security fears, and distrust of Washington. A durable agreement requires time, restraint, and professional diplomacy\u2014not bombast, coercion, and calls for unconditional surrender that guarantee only resistance<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trump, Iran, And The Folly Of Demanding Surrender<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iran is not a transient power that can be coerced into submission; it is a civilization with over 2,500 years of continuous history, shaped by a deep sense of identity, resilience, and pride. From the philosophical legacy of Avicenna to the poetic brilliance of Hafez and the scientific contributions of Al-Khwarizmi, Iran\u2019s imprint on global civilization is profound. Coupled with vast human and natural resources and a commanding geostrategic position, this history informs a national mindset that equates capitulation with existential defeat. To demand unconditional surrender,\u201d as Trump has, is not only diplomatically reckless but culturally tone-deaf\u2014such a demand is inherently unacceptable to Iran and ensures resistance, rather than compliance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is not to suggest that the Islamic-led government is benevolent and deserves every consideration. The government has committed egregious human rights violations, systematically repressing its population. It has killed thousands during recent protests, carried out widespread arbitrary arrests, and imposed severe restrictions on women\u2019s rights. Political dissent is routinely crushed through imprisonment, torture, and executions, reflecting a pattern of state-sanctioned brutality that continues unabated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Negotiation Requires Mutual Understanding Nevertheless, effective negotiation does not require agreement with the other side\u2019s behavior, ideology, or political posture, but it does require genuine effort, even by adversaries, to understand that their positions have been heard and seriously considered. When a counterpart senses dismissal or indifference, they become far less inclined to engage, let alone compromise. Listening, therefore, is not a concession; it is a strategic necessity. By acknowledging the legitimacy of the other side\u2019s interests\u2014even while contesting them\u2014a negotiator creates the minimal trust required for negotiations to make progress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Absence of Trust<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iran\u2019s deep distrust of the United States\u2014particularly under Trump\u2014stems from a pattern of actions that have steadily eroded credibility. The withdrawal from the Joint Comprehensive Plan of Action (JCPOA) in 2018, the assassination of General Soleimani in January 2020, and twice striking Iran even in the midst of negotiations in June 2025 and February 2026, have reinforced Tehran\u2019s belief that Trump cannot be trusted. No party will negotiate seriously when it anticipates duplicity at critical junctures.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Moreover, Trump\u2019s pattern of threatening to annihilate\u201d Iran, to bomb it back to the stone age,\u201d and his repeated threats to attack civilian infrastructure\u2014electric grids, bridges\u2014as leverage to reach a deal in a day or two is absurd given the complexity and the far-reaching implications of the negotiations. Such coercion only deepens mistrust, hardens resistance, and effectively forecloses any realistic prospect of reaching a durable agreement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trump\u2019s rhetoric does not project strength; it signals recklessness and contempt, confirming to Iran\u2019s leadership that the US is willing to inflict indiscriminate harm. This reflects a fundamentally flawed approach to negotiation, as Iran sees little incentive to compromise with a counterpart it views as both hostile and untrustworthy, compounding its preexisting distrust.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trust, however, cannot be demanded or negotiated; it must be carefully nurtured over time. For Iran to consider significant concessions, it must first feel secure. That requires credible assurances that the United States will refrain from military action and prevent Israeli strikes. Only within such a framework of guaranteed restraint can a fragile foundation of trust begin to emerge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iran\u2019s National Security Concerns<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iran does not seek a usable nuclear arsenal so much as the capability to assemble one quickly, creating a powerful deterrent against adversaries. In Tehran\u2019s strategic thinking, latent nuclear capability\u2014rather than overt weaponization\u2014offers insurance against regime-threatening attacks while avoiding the full international backlash that an open bomb program would trigger.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iranian analysts also draw lessons from Ukraine, which surrendered the Soviet nuclear arsenal it inherited under the 1994 Budapest Memorandum. Russia likely would not have invaded had Ukraine retained its nuclear weapons. Iran likewise notes that Kim Jong Un\u2019s growing arsenal has effectively shielded his regime from serious external threats or regime change efforts. India and Pakistan, after three major conventional wars, have since limited their confrontations to skirmishes under the shadow of mutual nuclear deterrence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This experience reinforces Tehran\u2019s belief that only a credible nuclear option, the clear ability to build one, can prevent similar aggression, and that relinquishing such deterrence would require far-reaching security guarantees that make Iran feel secure without the nuclear shadow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Complex Negotiations Cannot be Rushed<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Serious negotiations with Iran, involving layers of nuclear, regional, and security issues, cannot be rushed through in a matter of days or weeks. The JCPOA took nearly 2.5 years to finalize, precisely because of its complexity and the depth of mistrust on both sides. Any administration that genuinely seeks a durable, comprehensive agreement must accept that time is not a luxury but a prerequisite for success.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If Trump wants a credible accord, he must halt hostilities, maintain the ceasefire throughout the talks, and allow trust to grow incrementally as negotiations proceed. Trying to force a deal on a short schedule cannot be taken seriously in Tehran. An accord reached under duress and against the clock will lack both legitimacy and staying power, and will almost certainly collapse at the first crisis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The concessions required of both the US and Iran are inherently difficult to negotiate and will take time, yet they are fundamental to any viable agreement. To reach a viable agreement, Iran and the US would need to take a series of concrete, verifiable steps that directly address the core security concerns of both sides.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iran must immediately reopen the Strait of Hormuz to all commercial and military shipping and commit to sustained freedom of navigation. It must cease arming Hezbollah, the Houthis in Yemen, and allied militias in Iraq, and gradually scale back its offensive ballistic missile program under intrusive verification. Iran must also stop threatening Israel with genocidal rhetoric, which has been and continues to be the source of their intense hostility and one of the main sources of the region’s instability, and ship out or downgrade its 60 percent enriched uranium stockpile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In return, the US must also remove its military blockade of the Strait of Hormuz and extend the ceasefire without stipulating an expiration date. It must recognize Iran\u2019s right to a civilian nuclear program under the strictest safeguards, to ensure there is no diversion to weaponization. Washington should begin releasing Iran\u2019s frozen funds and gradually lift sanctions, in a carefully calibrated manner tied to verified compliance. The United States must also formally pledge non interference in Iran\u2019s domestic politics, renouncing regime change operations and covert destabilization while reserving the right to speak out on human rights.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If both sides fully adhere to this process over time, they can move toward structured discussions on the gradual normalization of relations, including the restoration of diplomatic representation and expanded economic and cultural ties.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Despite Trump\u2019s claim of victory, Iran emerged as the de facto winner in its confrontation with the US and Israel, both of which failed to achieve regime change or spark a popular uprising. Instead, Iran\u2019s leadership is now younger and more resolute. The conflict exposed the limits of US and Israeli military power, while Iran demonstrated resilience and its ability to disrupt global oil flows through the Strait of Hormuz. In doing so, Tehran signaled that it is no longer a marginal actor, but a power to be reckoned with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To curb Iran\u2019s extremism, the US must abandon fantasies of regime change and recognize Tehran\u2019s security concerns and legitimate interests. Coercion and demands for capitulation only harden resistance. Stability requires reciprocal concessions and sustained diplomacy. Anything less will deepen confrontation, reinforce Iran\u2019s deterrence, and drive the region back to the brink.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dr. Alon Ben-Meir is a retired professor of international relations, most recently at the Center for Global Affairs at NYU. He taught courses on international negotiation and Middle Eastern studies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dr. Alon Ben-Meir Trump\u2019s threats and maximalist demands ignore Iran\u2019s history, security fears, and distrust of Washington. A durable agreement requires time, restraint, and professional diplomacy\u2014not bombast, coercion, and calls for unconditional surrender that guarantee only resistance Trump, Iran, And The Folly Of Demanding Surrender Iran is not a transient power that can be coerced […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-155847","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-world"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/155847","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=155847"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/155847\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":155848,"href":"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/155847\/revisions\/155848"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=155847"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=155847"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=155847"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}