{"id":72374,"date":"2017-12-02T23:03:57","date_gmt":"2017-12-03T05:03:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/?p=72374"},"modified":"2017-12-02T15:28:10","modified_gmt":"2017-12-02T22:28:10","slug":"tolerance-in-opposite-order","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/2017\/12\/02\/tolerance-in-opposite-order\/","title":{"rendered":"TOLERANCE IN OPPOSITE ORDER."},"content":{"rendered":"<h2><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><em><strong>By Dr. Tilak S. Fernando.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Dilshani Palugaswewa highlighted in the <em>Ceylon Today <\/em>(Sunday Edition), the discourse made by Ajitha Wickremesinghe, the Financial Legal Equality Advisor and Director of iProbono, and the Founding Trustee of Think Equal, at a function held at\u00a0 the Bandaranaike Centre for International Studies, on 21 November, to mark The International Day for Tolerance.<\/p>\n<p>Ajitha Wickremesinghe\u2019s speech at the forum was significantly thought provoking. He has opened his discourse by asking whether \u2018<em>any one wishes to be just tolerated,\u2019<\/em> which is very much on a par with the present situation in Sri Lanka, especially in political circles.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-72375\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Tilak-logo.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"495\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Tilak-logo.jpg 495w, https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Tilak-logo-300x205.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 495px) 100vw, 495px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Behavioural patterns of people certainly have an overall impact on any society. Everyone agrees with Aritha Wickremasinghe\u2019s viewpoint that \u2018tolerance is much<em> <strong>desirous<\/strong> than <strong>discriminating<\/strong><\/em>, as no one wants to be treated negatively\u2019. He has concentrated, in his sermon, mainly on the traffic situation in Sri Lanka, as well as on a wide-range of topics, from racial discrimination to associated violence (evidently displayed recently in Gintota), and on gender based discrimination in job opportunities, particularly on women, the disabled and, those confined to wheel chairs, and the transgender.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tolerance in opposite order.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The tolerance can easily work in the opposite order as well! Sri Lankans, on this issue, expose their gullibility due to a long-term brainwashing done by politicians, which has managed to breed\u00a0a \u2018social smog<em>\u2019<\/em> tolerance. It would be more prudent to refer \u00a0to the inaugural speech made by President Maithripala Sirisena, when he addressed the newly elected Members of Parliament, after winning the Presidential election on 8 January 2015, by calling them as,  <strong><em>Garu<\/em><\/strong> or <strong><em>Hono<\/em><\/strong><strong><em>urable Members of Parliament<\/em><\/strong><em>\u201d.\u00a0 <\/em>From there onwards, he went on to congratulate the people of Sri Lanka, who voted for him, as well those who did not, et al.<\/p>\n<p>The President, as a Parliamentarian with 26 years of experience, at the time, and as a Minister who had held a variety of portfolios in the government, appeared to have been <strong><em>caught unawares<\/em><\/strong>, to use the term \u2018<strong><em>tolerance<\/em><\/strong><strong><em>\u2019<\/em><\/strong><strong><em> in the opposite<\/em><\/strong><strong><em> order<\/em><\/strong><strong>\u2019<\/strong> by addressing all as, \u2018<strong><em>Honourable<\/em><\/strong> <strong>or <em>Garu<\/em><\/strong>\u201d members.<\/p>\n<p>Could this be due to people in this Country being reduced for decades to a nationwide\u00a0`smog tolerance,`\u00a0 either by being na\u00efve or purposely? It is mind-blowing to note how every one in this country is addressing parliamentarians as \u2018<strong><em>Garu <\/em><\/strong><strong><em>or <\/em><\/strong><strong><em>honourable<\/em><\/strong>, as a spreading contagious disease. The Cabinet Ministers on the other hand, seem to believe that they have descended from heaven and dwell in cloud nine! It is such a travesty that they seem to forget their obligations as to why people in this country have elected them to such glorious positions. In the bygone years, even the cream of the civil servants displayed humility by signing official letters as `<strong><em>Your obedient servant<\/em><\/strong><strong><em>\u2019<\/em><\/strong>! Parliamentarians are not a special breed, but ordinary people elected by the citizenry, and get paid handsomely out of taxpayers\u2019 hard earned money for which, they need to be duty bound officially as well as \u00a0morally.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Honourary Titles<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Honourary titles exist academically in Universities and Colleges, as an accolade in recognition of students\u2019 merits. In certain contexts, a title\u00a0is added to someone&#8217;s name to signify veneration, or a professional or academic qualification. In a more general concept, the title of \u2018 Doctor\u2019 is used on non-medicos, who hold a philosophic degree. Senior Surgeons in Britain are addressed as \u2018Mr \u2019 as an honour, instead of simply calling them \u2018Dr. \u2019 Titles such as \u2018 Sir \u2018and \u2018Dame,\u2019 in the UK, are bestowed upon a special category of men and women, with the rank of Knight Commander, or holder of the Grand Cross in the Order of Chivalry. Therefore, to address someone as \u2018honourary,\u2019 the person needs to be engaged in voluntary work, without seeking any payment or remuneration for his services.<\/p>\n<p>In such a backdrop, when the general public and politicians are addressing each other and among themselves, as \u2018<strong><em>garu<\/em><\/strong>\u2019 or <em>honourary Member of Parliament, Prime Minister or President<\/em>, the tolerance begins to work in opposite order, as the <em>entire lot is not engaged in honourary work but earn fat salaries, allowances of many a kind, including<\/em> <em>millions worth<\/em> <em>of duty free luxury car permits and, the worse being becoming self centered, and clutch themselves to their parliamentary privileges, for five years, and qualify for a life time pension<\/em>. It\u2019s high time that the citizenry begin to cast-off such balderdash, and treat politicians for what they are, as none of them appears to be doing a voluntary service.<\/p>\n<p>Young Aritha Wickremasinghe\u2019s strategies \u2018<em>to push forward a new generation of identical thinkers and well mannered citizens<\/em>\u2019 in a steering programme, aimed at children of three years old, in a number of selected schools, need to be recognised and upheld.<\/p>\n<p>tilakfernando@gmail.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Dr. Tilak S. Fernando. Dilshani Palugaswewa highlighted in the Ceylon Today (Sunday Edition), the discourse made by Ajitha Wickremesinghe, the Financial Legal Equality Advisor and Director of iProbono, and the Founding Trustee of Think Equal, at a function held at\u00a0 the Bandaranaike Centre for International Studies, on 21 November, to mark The International Day [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[43],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-72374","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-by-drtilak-s-fernando"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/72374","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=72374"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/72374\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=72374"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=72374"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lankaweb.com\/news\/items\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=72374"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}