By A. Abdul Aziz.
(The Gist of the Address by the
Worldwide Head of the Ahmadiyya Muslim Community the Fifth Khalifah
(Caliph), His Holiness, Hazrat Mirza Masroor Ahmad delivered for the Ahmadi Ladies, on UK Convention 2019 –
the gist of which as below)
In the beginning, Ahmadiyya Supreme
Head recited the verse of the Holy Qur’an (Ch: 57 – Verse 21) followed by their
translation and continued to presenting statistics that portray the religious
condition of the world; people do not believe in religion and even those who do
are of very low standards faith.
Ahmadiyya Khalifa said: Ahmadis should
care about saving the world from falling into the pit of fire, however, first
we should ask ourselves if our own condition is such that we give preference to
the love of Allah before the world.
The purpose of this Convention is to
develop our spiritual, moral and educational conditions. We must ask ourselves
whether these are the purposes we have come for or whether we are here for
socialising only?
Referring to the Quranic verses recited
at the outset, His Holiness said that Allah tells us that the world is
temporary and we should not think it is to last forever. Allah has declared
that the world is a mere pastime and sport. Can an intelligent man spend his
whole life in leisure and games? In worldly terms, this is not possible and if
one does this, then their lives ultimately result in ruin.
Ahmadiyya Supreme Head said that some
women write to him and inform him of their husbands who waste time watching
television or in social gatherings and rely on social income for financial
sport. His Holiness said that they have no real reason for this, and as a
result, they cause restlessness and discord within their homes.
Allah says that if we do not fulfil the
rights of Allah, His worship, serving faith and are totally engrossed in
earning wealth, then this will be the sport and pastime of the world.
The female companions had such
obedience for the Prophet of Islam Muhammad (PBUH) that once he sent a
companion to see a wedding proposal. When this companion met with the girl’s
father, he disapproved and did not allow the companion to look at her daughter.
The daughter, who knew the Holy Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) had sent him, herself
showed her face and immediately said that if the Holy Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) commanded this, then
who was she to oppose. The companion instantly lowered his own gaze out of
respect for the level of piety and obedience the female companion displayed.
Ahmadiyya Khalifa emphasised that the
Holy Prophet (PBUH) taught to opt for righteous and pious spouses. If both boys
and girls begin to prefer righteous spouses, then we will witness an atmosphere
where they shall be striving to become the most righteous. Households shall
compete with one another to become the most pious and righteous.
If parents bring up their children
according to religious values, then those children will also want to choose
religious partners.
Once, the Holy Prophet (PBUH) warned women, saying that the
woman who has gold jewelry made and flaunts it with great pride and shows it to
other women and men, then they shall receive a great torment. Wearing jewelry
is not forbidden, but being boastful and acting in a proud manner is incorrect.
Showing beauty and jewelry should be for mahram relations
[those relations with whom strict purdah has been excused by the Holy Quran]
.
Hazrat Mirza Masroor Ahmad said that
this Jama’at (Community) has a responsibility to bridge the gap between
the awwalin [pioneers] and akharin [those
of the latter days].
It is our choice, Ahmadiyya Khalifa
said – do we wish to acquire the pleasure of Allah by following these
companions or do we wish to follow Satan? Every Ahmadi should introspect and
ask themselves whether they are following the examples of the Companions of the Holy Prophet or not.
The second verse of the Holy Quran His
Holiness was one that is recited in the Nikah ceremony (marriage registration).
It highlights the need to be righteous and the importance of doing deeds that
shall become useful in the Hereafter. It is righteousness and fulfilling the
rights of Allah and his creation that shall be questioned. Fashion and worldly
wealth shall not be examined.
If we leave pious children behind, then
they will aid in our own spiritual development as well. If mothers bring children
up in a proper manner, then the children will be pious and righteous.
Allah knows what is hidden and He
cannot be fooled. He knows what we conceal and therefore knows exactly how well
we follow the teachings of the Promised Messiah, peace be on him.
Today’s mothers and those girls who
will Insha-Allah soon become mothers should plan to
develop their spiritual conditions and increase their knowledge so that they
are able to bring their children up in a proper manner. They should be able to
teach their children that the world is not our aim, but rather it is following
the commandments of Allah.
If our own spiritual conditions are not
up to the mark, we cannot expect any change within our own children. If we want
our children to become good spiritual servants of Allah, then proper planning
and action is required.
Ahmadiyya Khalifa reminded the audience
that Allah does not care how pious one’s parents were; it is only our own
actions that will count – they will be responsible for their actions and we,
our own. The Holy Prophet (PBUH) reminded his daughter, Hazrat Fatima, that she
would not be forgiven merely because she was the daughter of the Prophet only
her good actions would attract the forgiveness of Allah.
Ahmadiyya Khalifa said that when he
questions some men about their engrossment in worldly pursuits, they answer by
saying that their wives demand too much of them. For this reason, they must
work more and therefore cannot spare time for worship. Ahmadiyya Khalifa
emphasised that such an excuse is nonsense; in such an instance, they are
putting their wives and Allah on the same pedestal. They should fear Allah as
this is no less than committing Shirk.
Addressing the audience, His Holiness
said that if women really do pose such demands, then they should remember that
this is not how an Ahmadi woman should be. Ahmadi women should clearly say to
their husbands, that leaving faith for the world is wrong and not something she
wants. An Ahmadi woman should clearly state that they want to fulfil the rights
of God rather than attaining worldly objects.
After we pass on to the next abode,
Allah will not question us on how much wealth we left behind or the number of
children we brought up. He will ask us about our good actions, whether we
fulfilled His rights, whether we presented a good example before our children.
He will ask us whether wives told their husbands to prefer Allah over the
world. If a believer does not do so, then they will be like that hot gust of
wind that razes crops to the ground.
His Holiness reiterated that these
teachings are not just for women, but they are for all believers, including
men.
During the time of the Holy Prophet,
peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, the excuses of men about their wives
were of such a nature that they would say, My wife spends her whole time in
worship and overlooks my needs.” And if women ever complained, they would
inform the Holy Prophet (PBUH)
that they did not take care of their own beauty as their husbands spent their
time in worship alone. The Holy Prophet (PBUH)
would advise men and women to fulfil the rights of their spouses along with
worship.
The female companions would beautify
themselves not for fashion or to show the world, rather they did so to create a
pure atmosphere within their household.
His Holiness said that women should not
put on make-up and walk around in the streets without purdah
(veil). His Holiness also highlighted that modesty is the true
adornment of women and they should take pride in this. To say, We have
familial ties or such and such families are family friends and for this reason
we do not observe purdah” is entirely incorrect.
When the hijab is left, it is then that
immodesty spreads.
Ahmadiyya Khalifa recognised that there
would be some press members present during his speech who might remark, Look
how these people draw rules for their women.” Ahmadiyya Head said that we
should not care about what others think, but rather we should follow what Allah
has taught us
Concluding his address, Ahmadiyya
Khalifa prayed for Ahmadi parents to prefer Allah over the world and bring up
such children who can set their eyes on faith rather than the world.
Source: www.alislam.org